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    <div class="moz-cite-prefix">Dear Anouk,<br>
      <br>
      I always found your points of view very interesting, especially in
      our conversations at the European Pirates congress in Barcelona
      last year. I found you a very democratic pirate. Though I don't
      always agree with you on your perspectives respecting how to
      accomplish things, I usually get where you want to go.<br>
      <br>
      I like too Sun Tzu's <i>'The Art of War'</i> and recomended to
      different people several times... but I don't think it does apply
      here in this case.<br>
      <br>
      I don't think it's a matter of shyness, or being timid, or not
      knowing our own strenghts. I think it's a matter of wasting time
      and energy with things that most of the time are not helping at
      all to focus on our goal which is <u>how to get closer to people</u>
      (outside the pirate movement) and try to cover their needs with
      our ideology.<br>
      <br>
      People are not getting our message, our vision, mainly because
      these internal fights distract us from listen to them and act
      accordingly. We pirates need some fresh air to work united in a
      proactive way.<br>
      <br>
      My presence here has became (sadly) just to support our fellow
      pirates from Catalonia and our project of Confederation in Spain
      from time to time. To make people understand Catalans are not
      alone and we are not their puppets - as many times it's being
      suggested - but strong co-workers, even friends in a certain way.
      <br>
      <br>
      In Galicia we have decided not so long time ago that we are going
      to share our work through Pirate Times and specific projects
      (regarding PPI) while this agressive environment is not surpassed.
      And I'd like to remark it is not always a few spanish individuals
      who foul the environment. It is very difficult to work fast and
      efficient like this, especially for small groups as us.<br>
      <br>
      I agree completely with Muriel's suggestions. Leave this ML like
      it is and create a new one with rules and nettiquete previously
      settled to prevent this situation to ever happen again.  <br>
      <br>
      Best regards,<br>
      <br>
      <pre class="moz-signature" cols="72">Isabel Fernandez 
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      El 16/06/13 11:06, Anouk escribió:<br>
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cite="mid:CAMUTSpWpp3Qt6tRtwswBuAP5pCbCv5P66zq2u1AmB7o2my1CQQ@mail.gmail.com"
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      <div dir="ltr">in-line answered.<br>
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          <div class="gmail_extra"><br>
            <div class="gmail_quote">On 16 June 2013 00:47, Muriel
              Rovira Esteva <span dir="ltr"><<a
                  moz-do-not-send="true" href="mailto:muriel@pirata.cat"
                  target="_blank">muriel@pirata.cat</a>></span>
              wrote:<br>
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                rgb(204,204,204);padding-left:1ex">Dear Anouk,<br>
                <br>
                This list is for pirates. It's not the outer world nor
                the corridors of a Parliament. It should be a friendly
                environment. This is our discussion space, where we
                should be welcoming, motivating and encouraging newly
                arrived pirates. Shy and intimidated people may have
                very good ideas or insights that the whole movement can
                benefit from.<br>
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              <div><br>
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              <div>Hence I asked, but a little footnote, even being very
                shy or timid, if one never speaks out, you (in general)
                got a (common) personality problem to deal with.<br>
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                We do not need every single pirate helping us to change
                society or working for our cause to be at the front line
                shouting and speaking out loud, fighting within a harsh
                environment of old school politicians. Everyone has its
                place. Successful teamwork means that every individual
                should be fulfilling different and complementary tasks.
                <br>
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              <div><br>
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              <div>Precisely, 'we' are still trying to arrive at this
                working model/principle. So assuming that 'we' are
                already at this state is a fallacy (which is actually
                the core problem! Hence the returning kindergarten
                remark).<br>
                <br>
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                <br>
                If we select only one kind of personality traits, and we
                only encourage a kind of person to get in our team (call
                it enduring or whatever), we're very likely to loose a
                great deal of our potential and the insights that you
                get when you talk to people that are very different from
                you... I don't know, perhaps they would be able to tell,
                for instance, why is the movement not as successful
                sometimes as you would like it to be. <br>
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              <div><br>
              </div>
              <div>You gave yourself the answer just before :) TEAMWORK,
                we all have different talents learn to use them instead
                of trying to be this  omnipotent 'superpirate'. And YES
                we do need people at the political front that can endure
                foul attacks !!!<br>
              </div>
              <div> </div>
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                Additionally, I do not see as our duty (nor understand
                this obsession) with toughening up people who may
                temptatively come here to see what the pirates are
                about, and which may be willing to volunteer part of
                their time to the project, if the thing is appealing
                enough to them. Last time I checked this wasn't the
                mailing list of a military camp.<br>
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              <div><br>
                <a moz-do-not-send="true"
                  href="http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Sun_Tzu">http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Sun_Tzu</a><br>
                <b>It is said that if you <a moz-do-not-send="true"
                    href="http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Knowledge"
                    title="Knowledge">know</a> your <a
                    moz-do-not-send="true"
                    href="http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Enemies"
                    title="Enemies">enemies</a> and know yourself, you
                  will not be imperiled in a hundred battles; if you do
                  not know your enemies but do know yourself, you will
                  win one and lose one; if you do not know your enemies
                  nor yourself, you will be imperiled in every single
                  battle.<br>
                  <br>
                </b></div>
              <div>Life itself is a war until we abandon the notion of
                peace and war ! Hide and duck is a very bad advise from
                the fifties to protect yourself from a nuclear attack.
                If an attack is imminent, don't go in denial because you
                will suffer the consequences.<br>
                <br>
              </div>
              <div>Is the Pirate Party not the result of a foul attack
                at pirate bay ? Are pirates at peace with this ? I do
                not think so.<br>
              </div>
              <div> </div>
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                <br>
                I also think that we're plural (good thing!), and
                understand that some very valuable people with good
                ideas will not know how to express their thoughts in a
                different way (call it soft or respectful). And because
                I don't want to miss their insights either, that is why
                I think an unmoderated list should be mantained as well.</blockquote>
              <div><br>
              </div>
              <div>Why does anyone shy would like to expose him/herself
                to an international scene ? This is a<i> contradictio in
                  terminis</i>.<br>
              </div>
              <div>These pirates can function perfectly at a local
                level.<br>
                <br>
                 I am agreeing that a 'safe' mail list could help but
                frankly I doubt it.<br>
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                <div>Why should we limit ourselves to one way or the
                  other? Don't you think that the more ways we have to
                  communicate the better? </div>
                <div><br>
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                <div>Why do some care so much that other people talk
                  among themselves with a set of rules, if they please
                  to do so? Isn't forcing this no-rules rule on them a
                  way of limiting their expression?
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                    <br>
                  </div>
                  <div>Best regards,<br>
                    <br>
                                 Muriel
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              <div><br>
              </div>
              <div>You are a good person, thanks for your feedback. Know
                your friends.<br>
              </div>
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                        <div class="gmail_quote">2013/6/15 Anouk <span
                            dir="ltr"><<a moz-do-not-send="true"
                              href="mailto:jakobsheep@gmail.com"
                              target="_blank">jakobsheep@gmail.com</a>></span><br>
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                            <p>Hi Muriel and others,<br>
                              I like to point out that /anyone/ feeling
                              intimidated should/must speak out loud. 
                              For how do we know that this is happening
                              ?</p>
                            <p>Secondly, how does one survive at the
                              real political scene ? If we can't deal
                              with straigth forward problems as Antonio
                              has argumented, what chance do the pirates
                              have in public functions ? <br>
                              I still see his arguments on the table not
                              being handled well. Kindergarten is
                              unfortunately an good metaphore, and I
                              like to add, without supervision.
                              (although I like to point out that I also
                              do see progress). Unfortunately sometimes
                              things have to go worse before things
                              improve. (It is called, everybody has to
                              reinvent that same wheel)<br>
                              This is my opinion and I do not experience
                              the discussions as intolerable, au
                              contraire. I get more and more  insights
                              in the persons that shout and curse. This
                              is how they profile themselves, then that
                              is how they are. The truth (with humans)
                              is more often ugly then beautiful,
                              unfortunately. Deal with it rather then
                              keeping it at a distance.</p>
                            <span><font color="#888888">
                                <p>Anouk<br>
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                                <div class="gmail_quote">On Jun 15, 2013
                                  11:03 PM, "Muriel Rovira Esteva" <<a
                                    moz-do-not-send="true"
                                    href="mailto:muriel@pirata.cat"
                                    target="_blank">muriel@pirata.cat</a>>
                                  wrote:<br type="attribution">
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                                    Hello,
                                    <div><br>
                                    </div>
                                    <div>I fail to see how leaving this
                                      list as it is, and open a new one
                                      for people who likes to discuss
                                      differently is censoring anyone in
                                      any way.  :)<br>
                                      <br>
                                      In any case, it would be all the
                                      contrary, it would give the
                                      oportunity to all those who may
                                      feel a bit intimidated here to say
                                      something to speak their mind and
                                      participate.</div>
                                    <div><br>
                                    </div>
                                    <div>Best regards,</div>
                                    <div><br>
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